#2.  Describe 3 legitimate fears that you have and explain how they became fears.

This is going to be a tough one…….

Fear 1.  I think my biggest fear I that my kids will not grow up to be there for one another and not be close.  My family is not close and I look at other families where the siblings get along and only want the best for each other and I want that for my kids.  I want them to be genuinely happy for one another without being jealous and for them to be able to be honest with each other without fear of judgments and ridicule.  I want them to know that through this world they will meet many obstacles and hurts, but no matter what they have one person who will always be in their corner….their brother or sister.

Fear 2.  Probably of being alone.  Again, I’m not that close to my family, not by choice.  My father is gone, my mom is 88, my husband has passed away and I don’t really have a “pal around with pal” anymore.

Fear 3.  I’m really super scared of heights.  I don’t know how I became afraid of them – I am just freaky scared of high places!